Kodi munayamba mwamvapo kuti mukuyesedwa? Timakonda kulumikiza mayeso ndi mavuto, kukumana ndi mavuto akuluakulu kapena zovuta zazikulu. Mayesowa amakhudza momwe timachitira nawo. Koma pali mtundu wina wa mayeso omwe ambiri a ife sitiganizirapo. Ndi mayeso a … Chitamando. Kodi timachita bwanji zinthu zikakhala bwino, ndipo anthu ayamba kutiuza za luso lathu, ntchito yathu yabwino, kapena kuti palibe amene wakwaniritsa zomwe tili nazo?
Taganizirani chitsanzo ichi: Gululo linasangalala kwambiri Lisa atafika monga mtsogoleri watsopano wa dipatimenti. Aliyense anasangalala kuona mtsogoleri wakaleyo akuchoka pakampaniyo atatha kusagwirizana kangapo pa umunthu wake komanso mavuto ena m'madipatimenti. Polandira kusinthaku, anayamikira Lisa, yemwe anafika ndi mbiri yabwino, akuyembekeza kuti apambana kubwezeretsa zinthu bwino m'gululo.
Koma Lisa anali ndi chidziwitso chokwanira chodziwa kuti kungooneka bwino kuposa amene adamutsogolera sikunali kokwanira kuthetsa mavuto a dipatimentiyi. Mwanzeru anazindikira kuti ulemu wosapemphedwawo ungatha akangoyamba kupanga zisankho zovuta kuti zinthu ziyende bwino.
Kudzikuza kwa anthu - kudziona kuti ndife ofunika komanso ofunika - ndi chinthu chosalimba. Monga momwe kudzudzulidwa kungatipangitse kufooka mwachangu ndikupangitsa kuti tizikayikira kufunika kwathu, kuyamikiridwa kungatipangitse kudzikuza ndikuyamba kudziona ngati apamwamba kuposa momwe tiyenera kuchitira. Ndipotu, izi ndi zomwe mtumwi Paulo anachenjeza: “Pakuti ndi chisomo chopatsidwa kwa ine, ndinena kwa aliyense wa inu: Musadziyese nokha koposa momwe muyenera kudziyesa; koma ganizirani nokha ndi kuganiza bwino…” (Aroma 12:3).
Tsiku lililonse timaona atsogoleri omwe amachita zomwe Paulo anati tisachite - amadziona kuti ndi apamwamba kuposa momwe ayenera kudzionera. Palibe cholakwika ndi kunyada pogwira ntchito bwino ndikupambana kukwaniritsa zolinga zathu. Komabe, pamene kunyada kulamulira ndipo tikuyamba kukhulupirira kuti ndife abwino kuposa anthu ena, kuwaona ngati osafunika kwenikweni kapena osafunika kwenikweni, mavuto amatsatira mosalekeza. Tikhozanso kumva kufunika kodziwitsa ena momwe timadzionera tokha.
Tikukhulupirira kuti nthawi zina timalandira kuyamikiridwa, kuyamikiridwa, ndi kuyamikiridwa chifukwa cha ntchito yathu. Funso ndi lakuti, kodi tidzalandira bwanji ndi kuchita bwanji kuyamikiridwa kumeneko? Mavesi awiri ochokera m'buku la Miyambo la Chipangano Chakale amalankhula mwachindunji za izi.
Lemba la Miyambo 27:2 limati: “Wina akutamande, osati pakamwa pako; wina, osati pakamwa pako.” Ndipo Miyambo 27:21 imati, "Chokometsera cha siliva ndi ng'anjo cha golide, koma anthu amayesedwa ndi kutamandidwa kumene amalandira." Tangoganizirani zimenezo - "kuyesedwa ndi kuyamikiridwa."
Mnzanga amene anakhala zaka zambiri akugwira ntchito yokonza magazini anandiuza momwe mavesi amenewa anamuthandizira kukhala ndi maganizo oyenera pa ntchito yake. Anati iye ndi gulu lake lokonza magazini atasintha kwambiri zomwe zili m'magaziniyi komanso kapangidwe kake, zinali zolimbikitsa pamene anthu anayamba kumuuza momwe amayamikirira magaziniyi. Koma anatsimikiza mtima nthawi zonse kudzikumbutsa kuti Mulungu anamuika pamalo amenewo, anamupatsa luso ndi chidziwitso chomwe chimafunika, komanso gulu laluso lothandizira ntchito yake.
Kutsimikizira ntchito imene timachita n’kosangalatsa. Koma sitiyenera kuiwala kuti Ambuye ndiye woyenera kutamandidwa - ndi kuyamikiridwa - chifukwa cha zimene timachita.
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Kulingalira/Kukambirana Mafunso
- Kodi nthawi yomaliza imene munamva kuti mukuyesedwa inali liti? Kodi zinthu zinali bwanji, ndipo munatani?
- Kodi mungafotokoze bwanji tanthauzo la kuyesedwa ndi kuyamikiridwa? Kodi munayamba mwakumanapo ndi zimenezo? Ngati ndi choncho, m'njira ziti?
- N’chifukwa chiyani zimakhala zosavuta kwa ife kuzindikira mayeso pamene akubwera mu mawonekedwe a mavuto, koma osati mosavuta pamene zinthu zabwino zikutichitikira kapena pamene tikuzindikirika ndi kutsimikiziridwa pa zomwe timachita?
- Kodi mumatani mukamva ena akudzitamandira chifukwa cha zomwe akwanitsa kapena udindo umene akwaniritsa? Fotokozani yankho lanu.
ZINDIKIRANI: Ngati muli ndi Baibulo ndipo mukufuna kuwerenga zambiri, ganizirani ndime zotsatirazi: Miyambo 11:2, 15:33, 16:5,18, 18:2, 21:24, 22:4, 25:6-7, 29:23; Mateyu 11:29; 1 Petro 5:5-6
Chovuta Chasabata Ino
Tengani nthawi sabata ino kuganizira momwe mumachitira ndi kuyamikiridwa kapena kuyamikiridwa. Kodi mumawafunafuna? Kodi mumamva kunyozedwa kapena kukhumudwa mukapanda kulandiridwa chifukwa cha ntchito yanu? Kuyankha moyenera kungakhale nkhani ya pemphero, kupempha Mulungu kuti akupatseni maganizo oyenera.
Kungakhale bwino kukambirana izi ndi gulu lanu la CBMC, anzanu odziwa bwino ntchito, mphunzitsi, kapena mnzanu wodalirika, kukambirana za momwe kunyada ndi kudzichepetsa zingakhudzire momwe mumagwirira ntchito yanu komanso momwe ena amakuonerani.
